If the answer is No. Or Yes…
My next question is Are you pretending?
I know there is a lot of pressure from friends, family, colleagues. E.t.c to match the image they have of you in their head.
So you’re living a lie, suffering in silence, spending money you should be saving.
Just so it would appear you are living the dream. Stop.
Don’t hurt yourself, don’t pressure yourself…
Say to yourself out loud: “I can’t afford this right now”
Then slowly repeat each time you’re forced to go above and beyond.
You’re doing amazing! Don’t let anyone pressure you into pretending you’re fine.
If you’re not fine now. That’s okay because it is all a phase.
/ 2 months ago
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